
C H A P T E R 3
MY BELOVED
WHAT A GUY!!
A GREAT MAN
(And not only to me)
This is written in London, from a flat in the Bloomsbury, steps away from the
British Museum. Apparently I had to uproot my entire existence and come to
London to write a book about a guy from Saskatchewan. The why of this eludes
me at this moment.
I am following in the fine tradition of Richard Holmes, the amazing biogra-
pher. He begins Dr. Johnson and Mr. Savage by including their obituaries. Imita-
tion is the finest form of flattery, Mr. Holmes.
It has been demanded of me that I justify my decision to write a biography of
a “minor sports writer.” In response to this demand, in this chapter, I will use the
voice of others. None of these people thought that this man, this man I have come
to love, was a minor sports writer and would join me and my umbrage
The words of praise, shock, and adulation at the death of this fine man are
written on yellowed copies of a newspaper, the Regina Leader-Post of July 12,
1948. These clippings were slipped into my luggage by my cousin Gail. I was re-
turning to London from my mecca in January of 2016.
The first voice is that of Peter McLintock who wrote for the Regina Leader
Post of the funeral.
Under leaden skies Dave Dryburgh’s friends gathered in First Presbyterian
church Wednesday afternoon to bid a last farewell to the red-headed sports writer.
They came by the hundreds. From big cities and tiny hamlets in every part
of the west, they filed into the quiet church to pay their last respects.
Not all Dave’s friends could make it. For in his capacity as sports editor of the
Leader-Post for the past 16 years, he had made thousands of friends for himself
and for sport in every corner of the Dominion.
Those who were there were truly representative of Dave’s widespread inter-
ests and enthusiasms.. Many were brother newspapermen from Regina and other
cities. Many were prominent men in the sports world. But many others were peo-
ple from all professions, who had come in contact with him, perhaps in arguments
along “coffee row” or who knew him only through his dry-humored column.
Before a high bank of many-colored flowers, they heard Rev. N.D. Kennedy
remind them that Dave was a man who held to the high ideals of his exacting pro-
fession. His insistence on maintaining the highest standards in sport would be an
incentive to those who were left.
After the simple service, the funeral possession—six blocks long—made its
way slowly to Regina cemetery.
There, as the sun broke briefly through the western clouds, his friends said
goodby to Dave Dryburgh.
The next voice is that of Scotty Melville. I read it from a yellowed piece of
the Regina Leader Post newspaper. The real thing, not the Internet archive. It
makes it more real.
WINNIPEG (Special) As Dave Dryburgh’s personal friend for over 20 years
and his co-worker for over half that period, it is difficult to realize that he is gone.
Dryburgh was a great sports editor in every sense of the word. Possessor of
an analytical mind, his stories went far beyond the mere action and score of a
game and it was always a delight to pick up the paper the next day and read his
account of the happenings even though you had sat in on the same show yourself.
His comments in Sports Byways, in short, pithy paragraphs, brought out further
angles and made you wonder how he could glean so much from something that
could easily have been brushed aside as just another game.
He was at this best writing hockey, rugby football and curling, probably be-
cause they were the big sports in the western field. A soccer player in his younger
days, he know that sport backwards and could write a breezier account of a base-
ball game or a girls’ softball tilt than any of the others on the staff who covered
those sports regularly.
To my mind, the greatest stories he ever wrote were on the second Billy-
Conn-Joe Louis heavyweight fight which he covered for the Winnipeg Free Press,
The Regina Leader-Post and The Saskatoon Star-Phoenix.
He called the shot on the bout when the two boxers weighed in at noon be-
fore the fight and his account of the scrap topped anything the name writers of
the North American continent produced that night. And he still found time to do
a human interest piece about New York—nothing to do with sport—which would
have been full value to his papers even if there had been no heavyweight fight to
cover.
Behind the scenes he was a powerful factor in moulding the destinies of more
than one Saskatchewan team, senior and junior. He pulled no punches, was the
sort of guy who walked where angels fear to tread, and if he stepped on a few toes
it was usually all for the good. More often than not he was right.
He knew hockey in Saskatchewan as no other did; as secretary of the
S.A.H.A. he was Mr. Hockey to everyone from the president down. He made deci-
sions, the others backed them up.
As an editor, he insisted there was only one way of doing things. The correct
way. He did not tolerate mistakes and called for “clean” copy at all times, there
were few penciled corrections on his own stuff and he expected similar work from
others. He could whisk through copy in nothing flat and write heads that placed
plenty of punch just as quickly.
His Sports Byways column ranked with the best in Canada. In my opinion it
was one of the top three. He played no favorites in a realm where favoritism is of-
ten charged. Whenever necessary, his criticism was pungent, but he had the stuff
to back it up.
Dryburgh was a forceful character. He was always sure of himself and, of
course made enemies because of it. But he made friends, too. Around the office
we tabbed him as the “Iron Duke” and the name stuck to him through the years.
A lot of the “new” boys wondered about the name. They found out when he took
over as city editor for six months or so after the Second World War. He shook
some of them out of their shoes, but when he left—-sports was his first love—they
were sorry to see him go.
Dryburgh got great kick out of life. He liked the penny ante games on Satur-
day afternoons in the winter time; the little fishing trips in summer. He caught his
share of good hands at the former, but the fish usually were too much for him.
Perhaps his favorite pastime was trying to pick a winner at the races and he
often slipped down to Polo park when the ponies were running in Winnipeg to see
if he could outguess his good friend Lou Davies in selecting winners.
At Saturday night affairs he was right in the midst of things, singing and
dancing—he wasn’t very good at either—and was always the last man to call it
quits.
They’’ll miss the “Iron Duke” around The Leader-Post editorial office, they’ll
miss “Ice Berg” around at Gus Protopapas’s house of plenty when the boys gather
for a Saturday afternoon game… and around Saskatchewan and elsewhere they’ll
miss his printed word.
Sport lost a fine recorder when “30” came up for Dave Dryburgh.
The Saskatchewan Roughriders magazine entitled its piece “He Won’t Be On
the 55 Yard Line, A Tribute to Dave Dryburgh”.
No Dave Dryburgh won’t be up in the press box at Taylor Field this fall. He
won’t be there next year, not the years after, judging appraising, casting a critical
but friendly eye over the Roughriders and their opponents, as well as the juniors
coming up. For Dave is gone, but if they have a gridiron in that other land he’ll be
on the job.
As Hon. J.T. Brown, Chief Justice, Court of King’s Bench, had to say in an
article on the editorial page of the Leader, the day after Dave’s funeral:
The figures “30” in floral design were high over the centre of the floral display
in large red colors on a spotless white background. It spelt ‘finis’ for Dave. No
one believed it meant just that. In one sense, yes. In another, no. Dave’s last
sports article has been written—his last word has been spoken. But much that he
has written and said and done will be remembered and talked about in the days
still ahead and he himself will not soon be forgotten.
Probably no one is better fitted to judge Dave’s true worth, to his job and to
the sports world general, then Tom “Scotty” Melville who worked with him and is
now sitting in Dave’s chair in the Leader Post sports office. Here is what “Scotty
wrote the night of Dave’s death:” (The Roughrider article goes on to quote the
Melville story that appears above. The Roughrider article is accompanied by a
picture of my uncle, one I have not seen before. It shows him at the typewriter, at
work. He is not looking at the camera, but rather at the copy. He is dressed in a
suit and tie, looking most dapper. His hair is immaculate. He has a cleft on his
chin, a feature I have never before noticed. You can see his left hand. He wears a
wedding ring, and a square faced watch. I have always coveted a square faced
watch; my dream watch is a Cartier. If this book is published and sells I will buy a
Cartier watch with the proceeds. I will wait until 5:12 to set it for the first time.
That is because the Leader Post of July 12, 1948 reported: “Mr. Dryburgh’s watch
stopped at 5:12 p.m.” A single copy of that paper cost 5 cents. I wonder how
much the damn watch is going to cost. I am trying to make myself laugh and I am
wracked with tears and I sob as I write.
This article, which was ringed in black, solemnly announces that “It Won’t Be
the Same” The writing is not attributed to anyone.
The telephone on the sports desk rang Sunday evening but the guy who had
answered the phone a lot of times in the past 18 years or so wasn’t around to an-
swer it this time
“What’s this about Dave Dryburgh?” the voice at the other end of the phone
said. “It’s not true, is it? Dave was a personal friend of mine.” Unfortunately it was
true.
The phone rang again and again. Calls came from all over the province.
Surely it wasn’t true about Dave. Dave was too well known. He was too much a
part of the sport scene. Unfortunately, it was true.
The sport scene would not be the same any more. The man who called them
as he saw them with an almost legendary objective fearlessness would not be at the
sport desk any more.
There would be an empty seat in the press box up at Queen City Gardens.
The redhead who loved it wouldn’t be there. Mr. Hockey wouldn’t be there. And
because he would not be there it wouldn’t be the same any more.
In the brisk days of autumn when the air was cool with November and the
faithful were gathered together at the football field, Dave would not be there;
wouldn’t be there on the 50-yard line judging, appraising, casting a critical but
friendly eye.
When it was warm in summer and the faithful were gathered at Taylor field
to watch the ball game, Dave would not be there; wouldn’t be there in the press
box silently wondering why the coach didn’t call for a squeeze play. When the
curlers were pushing ’em down and the golfers were batting them out, Dave
wouldn’t be there.
Things wouldn’t be the same around the office. Dave wouldn’t be there. He
wouldn’t be bustling in with a cheerful word for everyone he passed en route. He
wouldn’t be in to the office to scan with meticulous care the sport page he loved
and that was his life.
Yet, it was probably about the way he would have liked it. He was on the job
to the end. He worked Saturday and there was a note on his desk for Monday.
He was on the job.
The man who loved sport and gave it every ounce there was in him to give
was gone. But, if they’ve got a baseball club in that other land, if they play hockey
or sport is part of the program, Dave will be there.
The 5 cent newspaper that gave me the time Uncle Dave’s watch stopped also
contains, on that front page, the comments of Al Ritchie, Regina Sportsman.
In the passing of Dave Dryburgh, the Canadian sports world has suffered its
greatest loss in recent years.
Our leading Canadian sports writers are outstanding: they rank with the best
in the world, Andy Lytle of the Toronto Star, Baz O”Meeara and Elmer Ferguson
of Montreal, Him Coleman of Toronto, and many others are brilliant writers, but
in my opinion Dave Dryburgh was the best of them all.
Dave had a grand vocabulary—a fine command of English, a unique and
pleasing style—a style all his own.
Despite the fact we had many a hot argument, I was at all times one of his
most ardent admirers. I favored his column above all other sports columns on the
continent. He was thoroughly conversant with every branch of athletic endeavor.
The pen pictures he gave the public of every game he covered outclassed all ef-
forts of any of his contemporaries. His clear, graphic portrayal in that sparkling,
graphic style was something we all fed on. It was part of our life. We developed a
terrific appetite for his utterance. We devoured his column like hungry kids and
were always sorry it wasn’t longer.
Dave was a versatile writer, classy and sparkling—he was growing more popu-
lar with each successive year, because his readers in ever increasing numbers were
beginning to realize that his honesty of purpose, his fairness and sportsmanship,
were commensurate with with the quality of his writing. It would be hard to pay
him any higher tribute.
It’s a pleasure for one who knew Dave really well to be in a position to say to
those who did not know him personally—here was a man who could not be com-
promised, who would never sidestep an issue, who always tried to be fair and hon-
est with every athlete, and with every club, with every sport; a man who had the
courage of his conviction; a man who was the personification of tolerance and fair
play.
Dave broke into the sports world via the soccer field. A brilliant player in his
teens he played for juvenile, junior and senior Regina teams, including the Royals,
Thistles and Wilson Harper’s famous Leader-Post team. He played right half
against a Scottish touring team when he was 20.
In those days the Regina newspaper had nobody assigned to cover soccer
games, so as well as playing in them, Dave wrote up the games for the next day’s
paper.
Father Athol Murray, Notre Dame College Wilcox, said:
A national disaster. Dismay will fill the sports world of Canada. With shocking
suddenness, Canada has lost a man whose fire, vision and drive vitalized every
outlet of that ancient Greek thing—sport—which has made our world. Dave was
different. He wasn’t just a sports writer; he lived the game he wrote. Many a time
his reader could catch the very atmosphere and feel of the fight. We’ll miss him.
Hundreds of western boys owe him their career. They must not forget his name.
The July 12, 1948 Regina Leader Post chronicles Wild Bill’s thoughts back
then:
This is a very great shock to all of us. Dave Dryburgh, besides being one of
my best friends, was very closely associated with myself and the boys of the Regi-
na Capitals hockey club. I always found Dave a real sportsman and a man who
deeply loved his home town of Regina. He would go far out of his way to assist all
sports bodies in creating a good record and name for our city. All Regina, and
sportsmen throughout the Dominion, will miss Dave deeply. The sympathy of
Mrs. Hunter and my self goes out to Mrs. Dryburgh.
William Dickenson “Wild Bill” Hunter went on from his 1948 comments to
become a famous Canadian hockey player, general manager and coach. He was
involved in hockey, football, baseball, softball and curling, but he is best known for
founding the Western Hockey League. He was awarded the Order of Canada in
2000 and inducted into the Canadian Sports Hall of Fame in 2011.
This is my brother Denis’ story.
BUSINESS CLASS, CANADIAN AIRLINES
Canadian Airlines Flight from Toronto to Edmonton
Business Class
February 22, 1994
Flight Attendant: May I take your coat, Mr. Dryburgh?
Passenger: You wouldn’t be related to Dave Dryburgh, would you?
Denis Dryburgh: I am! He was my uncle.
Passenger: He was the greatest sports writer this country has ever seen! him well!
I knew
The passenger was William Dickenson (“Wild Bill”) Hunter. I later learn do-
ing research for this book that Uncle Dave is the guy that gave “Wild Bill” his
moniker.
Father Murray, we have not forgotten his name. Perhaps the head of my cre-
ative writing program had, but not any more.
But as I type these words there is a back story. The trip to Canada in Decem-
ber/January of 2016 was planned with the efficiency of the D-Day invasion of
Normandy. I would be traveling from Edmonton, Alberta to Regina
Saskatchewan via Greyhound bus. Regina is the mecca as Uncle Dave centered
his adult life in that city. He is buried there, as you have learned. I decide to email
the Regina Leader-Post, tell them of my impending visit and see if I can get
someone from the paper to meet with me. Will Chabun, a reporter with the paper,
responds and we have a lengthly email correspondence. He is so incredibly help-
ful. Then when I am in Regina he meets with me, bringing a the newspaper file
with him. After our meeting he keeps working on things, trying to find someone
that might have met or worked with my uncle. He hits pay dirt (whatever that ex-
pression might mean). The timing could not have been more perfect. He connects
me to Cam Hutchinson, the editor of the Saskatoon Star-Phoenix who has an
employee, a certain Ned Powers who Will believes worked with my uncle. Will
writes and asks me how things are going. I respond with this email.
Will,
So what I am going to do is to copy and paste from an email that I send to the
Niece’s Nexus. They are a cobbled together group of my female Dryburgh cousins
– I cobbled them to help me find Uncle Dave. Pat lives in Australia, Faye in Regi-
na, Geri, Gail and Carol-Ann in Vancouver. When I started this project they were
strangers to me, and many to one another. I have now met (and bonded, in the
finest sense of the word) with everyone but Pat. As you will read I emailed them
about Ned. None of this would be possible without you. Faye in a responsive
email asks about you and your fine hand in all of this. It is there, it is core!
My email to my cousins, the Niece’s Nexus:
You guys!!!
I found somebody who worked with Uncle Dave. Somebody that was working
at the paper the night that he died!! His name is Ned Powers, he is still writing. He
is 86, he is willing to help out!! It is a miracle I think. Well not a miracle as I see
Uncle Dave’s hand in all of this. I am going to copy and paste from the email that
I sent Ned this morning. I got his email last night telling me about his presence
and incidentally mentioning that he knew my father, that is why I address that is-
sue at the end of my email to him.
Gail you were so incredibly instrumental in all of this because you gave me
the yellowed copies of the Leader Post and typing from them gave me such a sense
of immediacy, putting me back there in a way. Tears were streaming down my
face as I typed…and then to get Ned’s email. WOW!! And Carol-Ann you are core
to all of this!!! Anyway – here goes –
“Ned,
My goodness, I do not know where to start! All of this is just so unbelievable
– unbelievable that I should “find’”you exactly when I did . The day before yester-
day I was typing from yellowed copies of the Regina Leader Post, the accolades of
so many that had been gathered the evening of Uncle Dave’s death. Typing from
the yellowed copies made it more immediate than it would have been through the
archive on the Internet. Then yesterday I get your email and learn that you were
there that night. How in the world did you all manage to put out that paper in one
night, in one day? I am struck at the profundity of the writing of many. Al Ritchie
being one, Father Murray being another. All of that work, that profound testimo-
ny to my uncle was gathered together with such limited technology compared to
the magic we have today. I find it astounding.
I guess we could start there by telling me of your memories of that evening. I
imagine that everyone must have been in shock. I imagine my uncle to have had
such a presence, I see him as being larger than life. (Incidentally I was alive at the
time and actually in Regina but I have no memory of ever meeting him but I have
no memories of my childhood so I could have).
So if you don’t mind – maybe we could start from there. I am so happy I found
you. I want to jump on an airplane and come and talk to you. At this moment I
cannot because of my responsibilities relating to my program at school. Now that
is ironic, the sole aim of my program at school is to write a biography of my un-
cle?!? But no time for irony!
As you may have surmised, Alex Dryburgh of North Battleford, is my Dad.
Surmise, by my first name. He lives in Edmonton, will be 95 next month, has de-
mentia. He is the only one of the eight Dryburgh boys of that generation still liv-
ing.”
So I did some closing words to Ned and then sent it off.
These are my closing words to you all and sending it off. By the way Faye (and
Gail) – yesterday I made that fantastic lentil soup from Nick’s in Regina. It is so, so
good. Gail got included in that because I made it when i was staying with her. Bye
for now. Alexis
The cousins write back. They are amazed and joyous.
This email is from cousin Pat who lives in Australia.
What a treasure of a find!! How incredible that you not only found Ned Pow-
ers but that he knew Uncle Dave and was there with everyone the night our uncle
left this world for his next plain of existence……I’m sure he is guiding you all along
the way – not because he is vain but is proud of what you are achieving. Uncle
Dave was a reporter…..and what is a reporter? Nothing less than a Detective and
you as a writer Alexis, are also a Detective and you have found some incredible in-
formation from sources that in just a few more short years would probably be gone
forever
Sorry Girls…..but I really really don’t want the Lentil soup recipe…..yuck!!
LOL
From cousin Faye, Regina
Well, the writing gods are definitely smiling on you lately.
I have never heard of Mr. Powers, so did an Internet search to see if he is still
in Regina, and found that he has been in Saskatoon for many, many years. Quite
the man – CTV Saskatoon’s Citizen of the Year a couple of years ago, too. I’m
sure he will be very helpful to you as a source of first-hand information on some-
one that none of us ever knew. How did you find out about him?
They are so supportive. Rather than being strangers to one another we are
uniting as a family. Uncle Dave is the Dad; I guess I am the Mom. Neither Dave
nor I had children, so I guess it is prophetic. (weird word that but it works
actually). Alexis
Will responds: “This is wonderful! Words fail me at this instant!”
I send all this off to the Niece’s Nexus.
Sent this email to Will, the Regina Leader-post guy. I am forwarding his re-
sponse.
Words failing a reporter?! I must be great. Cuz, a
Sent from my iPhone
Geri, a niece, writes back:
Hi all…Alexis all this news from you is so exciting you are amazing! Keep writ-
ing girl. As for the paper clippings Gail gave you I remember them well reading
them often over the years. All the info from all of you is fantastic. Pat I am with
you on the lentil soup…
But there is a back story to this back story because in the meantime Ned and I
are corresponding.
Hi Alexis: I am enclosing some memories about my short life with Dave and
how he influenced me. I got started and rambled on. As I say, most is inconse-
quential to what you are doing but it was the best way of explaining my working
days with him. What happened then could never happen today. You would have to
get a journalism degree to get in the door. I’ve always respected journalism de-
grees but I often found some who just came off the streets and succeeded. If you
want anything else, let me know. I really think the column he wrote before the
Louis-Conn fight was one of the classics. For now, that’s my trip down memory
lane. Good luck and be in touch if you need some help. I went to some baseball
meetings when I was with the StarPhoenix and your dad was representing the
North Battleford Beavers. I always enjoyed his company. Ned
Memories of Dave Dryburgh
I’m gathering that by your mention of typing from yellowed pages that you
have a copy of Dave’s obituary and Scotty’s tribute in hand.
I’m not sure what happened exactly in the office that night. At that point, I
was in high school, covering games whenever they happened, and going to the of-
fice almost every night except Saturday. I would often go to the office, usually af-
ter supper and stay until about 10:30 p.m. I found out about his death when I ar-
rived in the office. The way the obituary reads, it seems like it was a collaboration
of reporters – one learning about the accident at the lake, another writing Dave’s
history, another collecting some tributes. There was no byline on the story. And
that meant collecting some resources together because, normally on a Sunday
night, there might be one weekend reporter, maybe a photographer, a night editor,
and whoever was hanging around the sports desk. I can’t pinpoint who was on
staff that night but they did an awesome job. (In the history of newspapers, some
obituaries were prepared in advance but there was no way of knowing that Dave,
at 39, would die that early and have something prepared on him.) My own feeling
was one of sadness and sorrow because Dave was the person who took a real
chance on me when I was 13 years old and that would have been a remarkable
gamble in those days. On that night when I got home, I wondered how long it
would take me to accept the fact that he was gone and how much sleep would I
get.
I will share with you Dave’s gamble. I was a boy living in Eaglesham, in north-
ern Alberta, where we didn’t even have any sports activity, except summertime
baseball tournament. I grew up listening to Hockey Night in Canada on the radio
and as my dad saw my interest grow in sports, he subscribed to the Edmonton
Journal where I could read and learn. It came a day late and I can’t imagine how
we could afford it. I’d write my versions of the stories and got a chance to write a
weekly column for the Grand Prairie Herald-Tribune. After I turned 13 in March,
1943, my dad had already approached George Mackintosh, the sports editor of
the Edmonton Journal, and he promised a job as an office boy when I moved into
Edmonton to go to high school. That never happened because on June 13, our
house burned down and I lost two baby sisters and my mother in the fire. My
mother, who came from Ireland to teach school, was the writer in the family. She
had a brother, Christy McDevitt, who was a well-known journalist in Vancouver.
My dad and we three boys moved to Regina and somehow my dad went to visit
Dave at The Leader-Post, I got a tryout. The first football game I covered, I wrote
it in what we call Canadian Press style, short, sweet and just the facts. I soon
learned I had to go much beyond that. I was still in Grade 8 that first year. I cov-
ered high school sports, namely football, basketball, hockey, track and field and
baseball, for six years. In the summer months, I spent a lot of time covering soft-
ball games at Regina’s Central Park which was five blocks south of the Leader-
Post building.
While hanging around the LP, Dave trusted me enough to type up the baseball
box scores every game he covered. They’d be tabulated in the score book and I
would type them out. One night, I made a mistake and accidentally charged
catcher Ken Charlton with two errors. Of course, Ken raised the issue with Dave
and I got a strongly-worded reprimand. When you made a mistake with Dave, you
didn’t soon forget it and it is a lesson that has stayed with me all my life. He was
tough that way but I believed I was learning from somebody and learning by ex-
ample. He wanted the facts right, he wanted the stories to be breezy and brief. In
most of my early days in writing sports, I was the reporter – the person who would
set the facts right and make a piece of history. We described the play leading up to
the goals, the touchdowns, the hits and runs. Seldom did we quote the coaches or
the players (who all know the clichés) and the bottom line is that WE WERE AL-
WAYS THERE. I doubt if today’s local TV and radio sportscasters seldom get to
the games. TV usually installs cameras at sports events and the sportscasters can
sit back in the studio where they become more of a technician than a sportscaster.
The benefit of being at the games, as Dave was and Scotty Melville was and I was,
is that you built a network of friends and that network allows you to become bet-
ter-informed about teams, players and events.
So Dave was gone by the time I joined The Leader-Post on a full-time basis in
June, 1949. Scotty became my mentor. My primary beats were the Regina Pats
hockey team and junior football. Scotty had high hopes for me. But then one day
in April, 1953, I received an offer from The StarPhoenix and I jumped. Sister pa-
pers usually didn’t do that kind of thing. I think, and I often told Scotty, that it was
nothing personal and I needed to move away from home. Scotty and I stayed in
touch, he sending me stories, almost until the day he died. The LP didn’t suffer.
They have had many good sports reporters since.
I was in StarPhoenix sports until December, 1959, then went to work for a TV-
radio station for almost five years, and then came back to the SP,. When I came
back, there was no room in sports and I worked as an assistant city editor, the en-
tertainment editor for 25 years, and editor of the Sunday Sun for six years. I re-
tired in 1992, stayed on two and a half days a week at The Sun, was fired in the
big Conrad Black demolition of the empire in 1996, but came back six months
later to write features on part-time. I spent over 52 years with the StarPhoenix, ei-
ther fulltime or part-time.
Much if this is inconsequential to what you need. But I often imagine what my
life would have been like if Dave hadn’t given a tryout, without a strong reason,
and if Dave and Scotty hadn’t been my mentors. I learned more from those two
than I would have learned at journalism schools.
If you have read Scotty’s tribute to Dave, he was all of that and more. And
what was tremendous about his career, he never worked in an era of five-day
weeks. He never worried about days off and if the sports coverage demanded sev-
en days a week, he was the one to do it. He spent the good part of the day in the
office, Monday through Friday, and covered games after supper. That was his ded-
ication to sports and to the newspaper industry.
I think and I mull things over and I send this thank you email to Ned.
Ned,
I begin my thankful email to you by copying some of my earlier writing –
when I first began my quest to find Uncle Dave. I do so because your email an-
swered many of the questions I had about my hero. It solidifies many of my im-
pressions.
HE DIED YOUNG, I DIDN’T
Uncle Dave and I; we are polar opposites. I want to find something in
common. He died young. I didn’t. He was a guy. I am not. He did not graduate
from high school. I am ridiculously over schooled. His mother died young. Mine
lingered forever. He was athletic, played serious soccer. I could ice skate a little,
but lived in ice free California most of my life. He was married to the same
woman all of his short life; she was apparently a ding bat. I have been married
three times; my husbands’ sanity has never been at issue. Uncle Dave and I do
have one thing in common, neither of us had kids. But can you base a relationship
on a negative? Lord knows I have tried.
IV
MAKE BELIEVE
He is becoming the repository of all of the good feelings about me. I
see something about myself that I like; I say Uncle Dave had that. I do it the other
way around too. I see in him a trait that I admire and I look for it in myself. It is all
make believe of course. But make believe is fine as long as it does not take the
place of reality and as long as it does not hurt anyone. Here are the ways we are
alike. We are both first born, outspoken, kid free, smart (I admit it), nobody’s fool
(I like to think), brave (if need be), ambitious, hardworking, and not overly at-
tached to our families. The list will hopefully go on.
Back to now in this email. So one of the real mysteries for me was to try and
figure out how Uncle Dave was able to write as he did, seemingly without intricate
schooling. You answered that by telling me about your life and I have reason to be-
lieve that his experiences were similar to yours. You and Uncle Dave could just get
in there and do it. The Regina Leader-Post fostered the two of you. What a won-
derful legacy! As I alluded to in my writing I am “ridiculously over schooled.”
Creative writing programs are a joke. My “creative nonfiction” program allows me
to be in London on a student visa, that a marvelous opportunity. But otherwise,
NOT. I have never had the curse/opportunity to make a living from my writing
so I do not have that rough and tumble experience, which I am sure makes men
out of boys.
Your descriptions also confirmed for me the industriousness of Dave Dryburgh.
He worked so hard, he loved it but he gave it his all. Probably to the determent of
his marriage and probably to the determent of his attachment to this family but it
was a choice he made. No one could ever fault him for the difficult choice he
made. Uncle Dave was interviewed for a sporting magazine in 1948 and that is
one of the treasures that I have managed to uncover. If you like I will forward it to
you. The article made clear that he wanted to “die in the saddle.” Knowing that
he died doing what he loved gives me some comfort. Somebody famous, an atheist
said: “I don’t know God, but I miss him.” I feel that way about my uncle. I never
knew him but I ache for him. Thank you for making him real for me. Alexis
This is the end of this chapter almost. Humor raises its ugly head. Larry,
cousin Faye’s husband sends this email.
On Feb 2, 2016, at 3:10 PM, lsheffer@ wrote:
What I want to know is, if you get so emotional that you are reduced to sob-
bing while typing about a dead guy, what happens when you write a romance nov-
el with lots of steamy sex sections in it………..?
From: Alexis McBride
Date: 2/2/2016 10:11:38 AM
To: lsheffer@sasktel.net
Subject: Re: What I want to know……..
Jerk off, what else? A
Crazy cousin-in-law
Thanks! From you I know that is an incredible compliment and I am sure that
the field is not crowded. I am probably your only crazy cousin-in-law – not that
anyone would want (or need) more than one. Alexis